"Learn to love your Haters , They make you stronger"

 

To begin with ,I would like to ask you one question. Do you feel that you have somewhere became successful? or How far are you successful ? It is obvious that everyone has gained some success at their ends. Be  it a student , a business woman, a sportsperson or an actress, everyone worked hard enough to achieve their goals. 

Targets maybe be different , journeys  maybe be different but there is one thing that is constant for all, and they are haters! your hate list tends to grow from the very moment you try to step out on the path of success. now you must be thinking of people who always let you down and bring negative vibes in your life.

But believe me , every cloud has a silver lining . It is upto us to extract the hopeful aspect of the situation. It is wisely said that haters  are actually a blessing in disguise. But how?

when you are being criticized ,you can either fight back or you can be humble to handle the responses. remember to never  ever react to your haters, it only feeds them  and they eventually rise even more. After all, people criticize someone for those things which they simply could not achieve. They often try to bring you down because they are already below you.

During these times online hating has increased like anything. celebrities, vloggers , speakers or be it you and me, trolling is faced by everyone. Even if we post something their are positive and negative reactions. So how do you guys deal with  such comments and people??? if your answer is simply deleting the comment and forgetting about it , thinking its over, then my dear people you are misguiding yourself. It is never ever a solution . Just don't do it .  And when were we taught that running away from problems brings us close to solutions?  Instead be happy and grateful that now you have a hate list,

 because its a signal that you are growing.

one thing that life has taught me so far is that you simply can't make everyone happy . And if everyone seems to be happy with you , then you aren't doing it well enough!!

JESUS said ," love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, so that you will become children of your father in heaven because he makes his sunrise on both evil and good people , and lets rain fall on the righteous and the unrighteous .if you love who love you what reward will you have? even the tax  collectors do the same, don't they? "

We should inculcate his words of wisdom in our life.

Use your haters to develop your personality. You are and you are definitely going to face many NO's in you journey. Many questions like Why are you doing this? You should not do this. This is a complete waste of time. You will never succeed!!!!! and  etc  etc....

But don't you dare stop, because the taste of being successful after being criticized is very different.

The greatest saint of all time, Saint KABIR said,

"निंदक नियरे राखिए, ऑंगन कुटी छवाय, बिन पानी, साबुन बिना, निर्मल करे सुभाय।"

He advised to keep your critics close to you. They point out those weaknesses which if you conquer once will become the very reason of your success!!

However their are some genuine remarks that should be wisely assessed. so there is no point of being upset any more , because if people like  J.K. Rowling would have lost hope , we would not have got  Harry Potter today!. She never accepted the her  criticism and  her failures. And there she is today, the first person to become a billionaire by writing novels.

 

So , The sooner you will love you haters, the  farther you will thrive!

Thank You!